Every year, thanks to the brilliance of OneWord365, I choose a new word as a guide to lead me through the coming 365 days.
It usually comes to me in the most unexpected way, at the oddest times. This year, I was sitting at my kitchen table when I quickly wrote a few thoughts down in my journal. Self-discipline is hard for me sometimes, and I go back and forth with trying to find new rhythms. At the same time, I honor the fact that different life seasons call for different life rhythms anyway, and since we are a family who works from home and figures out how to homeschool our kids, every season is a little different, and we hold grace in that.
So my word for 2018 is instead.
In the practice of self-control, of self-discipline, of working toward new rhythms, I plan to practice the work of instead, without shame or fear.
Instead of my phone– a book.
Instead of anger– gratitude.
Instead of hate– love.
Instead of silence– resistance.
Instead of war– peaceful protest.
Instead of noise– silent listening.
Instead of manipulation– communication.
Instead of buildings– wilderness.
Instead of fear– dreams.
Instead of yelling– whispering.
Instead of greed– contentment.
Instead of inside– outside.
Instead of reacting– watching.
Instead of convenience– the work of my hands.
Instead of self-deprecation– self-worth.
Instead of tweeting– playing.
Instead of resting– restoring.
Instead of hotels– tents.
Instead of holding it in– letting it go.
Instead of sameness– diversity.
Instead of a closed-off religion– an open one.
Instead of a faith of sureness– a faith of questions.
Instead of English– Potawatomi.
Instead of colonization– nativeness.
I feel my shoulders relax already. When we look to the year ahead and ask honestly where we are and where we are going, we give grace to find the tiniest tools to help us along.
This year, for 2018, the word instead will guide me– into new adventures, into deeper presence with myself, others, this created world, and God.
In Potawatomi, the phrase for Happy New Year is mno web pongek, which means “it is good/happy/ to start something new/throw something out/ in the year” — isn’t this beautiful?
We get the chance to both pick new things up and throw out what we need to throw out without shame in 2018. We get to do that and acknowledge that it is good.
What word will guide you through 2018?
What will you start or throw out?
May we do it always in the knowledge that we are loved, and that we are covered in grace instead of anything less than that.
I leave you with this Tennyson poem to guide you with his words into 2018. Go in peace, friends.
- Ring out the old, ring in the new,
- Ring, happy bells, across the snow:
- The year is going, let him go;
- Ring out the false, ring in the true.
- Ring out the grief that saps the mind,
- For those that here we see no more,
- Ring out the feud of rich and poor,
- Ring in redress to all mankind.
- Ring out a slowly dying cause,
- And ancient forms of party strife;
- Ring in the nobler modes of life,
- With sweeter manners, purer laws.
- Ring out the want, the care, the sin,
- The faithless coldness of the times;
- Ring out, ring out thy mournful rhymes,
- But ring the fuller minstrel in.