Marriage Letters: The Names I Call You, The Ways You Call Me

Travis,

When I was young, I always thought it was so cute and perfect, the little nicknames people in love gave to each other:

“Sugarmuffin.”

“Honey.”

“Sweetie.”

“Darling.”

I met you. I searched for the perfect name and found nothing. After maybe a year of being married, I called you “Trav,” but what kind of in-love nickname is that?

So, I waited for one to come naturally. You always called me “Love” or “Babe” –the latter a name you actually call all of the women in your family, which didn’t quite give  it the perfect I’m in love… sort of feel, but the, I love you because we’re family, sort of affection.

But you do call me “Kait.” I’ve always loved that.

It’s been nearly four years, and I call you “Love” back.

I think about the ways in which you call me. Whether we’re fighting or kissing, laughing or sobbing, the way you say “Kait,” the way you speak “Love,” in my direction is the sound of your affection for me.

“Only, I wish you would not call me ‘My Dear.’…’Lizzie’ for every day, ‘My Pearl’ for Sundays, and ‘Goddess Divine,’ but only on special occasions…You may only call me ‘Mrs. Darcy’ when you are completely, perfectly, and incandescently happy.”

Maybe we’ll never have this name thing figured out quite like Jane Austen  imagined, or even as my young, dreamy heart did. Still, I’ll take a “Kait” or “Love” from you any day of the week, especially on Sundays, especially special occasions, and especially when you’re completely, perfectly, and incandescently happy.

I love being married to you.

 

Kait

One thought on “Marriage Letters: The Names I Call You, The Ways You Call Me

  1. I love that. It’s not so much the name- even when my husband says my first name (which is a very, very rare event- I’ve always been ‘beloved’ to him), the way he says it is like no one else. Love the pic of the two of you!

    I’m having a weirdo issue with WP at the moment, so know it’s me- Joy @Memoria Arts. I need to go find my Geek and get him to fix it! 🙂

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